DECISIONS AND LIFE LESSONS

Dear ,

 

Making decisions is part of our life. They might be just small, everyday decisions or decisions that have far-reaching consequences.

Many people are so afraid to take a wrong decision so that sometimes they end up in not taking any decisions at all and staying with an unpleasant, difficult or uncomfortable situation.

When I was reflecting about this, I was thinking about my own life and the countless decisions I have taken until now. And I was asking myself: “Did I always take the right decision?”

The immediate answer was: “Of course not!” – just to be followed by the instant reflection: “But do I really know if taking a different decision would have taken me to a better place? Definitely not!”

Some decisions seem to be so right in the beginning, like marrying our dream partner, deciding for a dream job, or moving to a better place. And then, after some time they might even turn into a nightmare.

Other decisions are taken with hesitation or even some resistance as they don’t feel so perfect in that moment. And then, after some time they might turn into the best experience ever.

When I really think it through, I believe that there are no right or wrong decisions. Every decision takes us a little further forward on our life path.

So, in the end, it feels that it is not about the decisions we take but about how we handle the consequences.

I remember a situation, many years ago, when I had taken a decision that seemed to be ending up in ruining my life. I needed help, I felt like in a dead-end street. The person I had turned to for support asked me: “When did you enter this dead-end street? Could you go back to the beginning and choose another street!”

It was a big teaching and a deep learning process. I immediately knew what to do and, although it was not easy. I did it - I went back to the beginning and made a new decision. But the experience that I had made whilst walking in that dead end street is part of my life path now. It changed me, it made me humble and more compassionate – with myself and with others. So, after all it feels like something that I needed in my growth.

Would I call that original decision a “wrong” decision – I would miss honoring myself and the life lesson that I had learned through it.

Now, if there are some decisions in your life that you call “wrong”, maybe think back, and try to find the life lesson in these situations. If you just turn to the “bad” side, you might miss something very important.

If you need to take a decision and you don’t know which one to take, be aware that you will never know the outcome before you decide. And after all, not deciding is also a kind of decision, right?

Whatever you have to decide, there is one thing that might be of support – and this is the question: “What is really important for me in this moment?”

If it is really important, then go with it – either it will take you to a great outcome or to an important life lesson.

I wish you a good month of August and I am sending you my best wishes in the spirit of love and reconciliation.

Ursula

Workshop in Cluj-Napoca

 

I am full of gratitude for being so warmly welcomed in Cluj-Napoca / Romania. I was allowed to spend and amazing long weekend with special people in a beautiful environment.

For many participants it was the first time ever to be part of a constellation workshop and I was deeply touched by their trust and openness. It is such a precious gift to witness the healing movements of the soul.

So thank you from my heart for making me feel at home and yes, I will come again soon.

 

Some more news

 

August 2022

 

I can't wait to have some days off and creating space for new ideas and offers.

I would love YOU to "work" and to inspire me with special topics or questions that you would like me to address in podcasts, videos or workshops.

Would you send me a short feedback through THIS FORM?

Thank you so much for your kind support and allowing my work to grow 💖

 

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October 2022

I am looking so much forward to October and traveling to Malta again.

The workshop days will be Friday (evening) 7th, Saturday 8th and Sunday 9th October.

There are only 4 spaces left for own constellations. If you are thinking about having your constellation, then please pre-register through the link below to safe your space.

PRE-REGISTRATION

 

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 YouTube

And here is a link to my latest short videos on YouTube - enjoy watching

1to1 Healing Sessions

 

Next possible spaces are from September 26th on.

If you would like to book a 1to1 session please get in touch through this link for registration 1TO1 HEALING SESSIONS

You can also go with me on a special "HEALING JOURNEY" that consists of 4 separate 1to1 sessions and reconnects you with your roots, allowing you to become aware of entanglements, hidden loyalties and healing what there is still unsolved in your relationship with mother and father.

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Any questions you might have, please feel free to contact me.

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Thank you for your trust and for allowing me to be part of your life journey

In the spirit of love and reconciliation,

Ursula

 

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